shore thing
Tuesday, May 5
While there is much uncertainty about the future, I can assure you that summer will happen for sure! I'm prepping for it in the just-bought-on-sale Dodo Bar Or dress, above, and eyeing other new yet already-marked-down summer styles at Shopbop like this perfect white tank by Victoria Beckham, these Schutz lace-up sandals, this ruffle-sleeved Cinq a Sept, this Melissa Obadash lace-trimmed cover-up, this tropical-print Agua bikini, and this floral Stella McCartney maxi. View all the incredible offerings here P.S. The beach-ready assortment is particularly strong!
buttoned down
Monday, May 4
My goal for this past weekend was to get outside: out of the house, out of my routine, out in nature (see here), and out of my head. So, I ventured out on long walks in the hinterlands of Malibu, made pesto from home-grown basil and then slathered on everything including vanilla ice cream(!), binge-watched Normal People (so painfully beautiful, so OBSESSED!), listened to Goop's Does Everything Happen for a Reason podcast (tears shed), and imagined a fun summer spent in Sweden (where I've never been) in nothing but forever-chic button-down shirts. This transporting fantasy was inspired by stylist Jeanette Madsen's compelling Instagram feed, which consequently led me to lose myself in the world wide web's button-down shopping rabbit hole. While it's a little embarrassing how much time I spent there, I will share with you some of the goodies I discovered along the way. Keep in mind, these are all shirts that will go from beach to street to backyard and beyond, are cut slightly (and of-the-moment) oversized and come off as infallibly cool. My selects hail from Nili Lotan, Vince, H&M, Madewell, and J.Crew.
statements
Friday, May 1
During a long (six-feet-apart) walk with two friends yesterday, I got a tutorial on humorous quarantine lingo. Here are my faves:
Coronacoaster: The ups and downs of your mood during the pandemic.
The Elephant in the Zoom: The glaring issue during a videoconferencing call that nobody feels able to mention. E.g., one participant has dramatically put on weight, suddenly sprouted facial hair, or has a worryingly messy house in the background.
Furlough Merlot: Wine consumed in an attempt to relieve frustration of not working, Also known as bored-eaux and cabernet tedium.
Covidiot (also called a lock-clown): One who ignores public health advice or behaves with reckless disregard for the safety of others.
Goutbreak: The sudden fear that you've consumed so much wine, cheese, banana bread and old Easter chocolate in lockdown that your ankles are swelling.
I also gleaned some new wear-now-and-later ideas (surprise, surprise), including the H&M looks above and below, and heard about this incredibly good sale!
and the bead goes on
Thursday, April 30
These low-key days--plus these pics here--are inspiring me to sub in beads for bling. I could use the extra jolts of whimsy, playfulness and brightness--and summer screams for colorful jewelry. As for options, there are loads: the Wald Berlin necklaces, immediately below, this puka Madewell, this Roxanne Assoulin daisy chain, this Maison Monik choker, this Oiya heart bracelet, and this gold and glass bead Scosha. For a Mother's Day gift, this custom-made Bauble Bar beaded bracelet (last pic) or this DIY necklace beading kit are cute and genius, and I'd be over the moon to self-splurge on this Jenna Blake.
blanche
Thursday, April 30
According to the Urban Dictionary, blanche (noun) is "A sweet and caring girl who loves being around people and making them laugh in their darkest days. Consider this the dress version!
home work
Wednesday, April 29
Back in January, my son was assigned an oratorical project for school. He needed to choose a speech given by a historical figure, memorize it, develop an introduction and conclusion for it, and then recite it in front of his 5th grade class. A timid, quiet boy, he was not at all psyched about this. Even so, he researched speeches and ultimately selected an excerpt from Steve Jobs' commencement address to Stanford's graduating class in 2005. Day in and day out during quarantine, my son has been practicing his speech at home, which runs exactly one minute and forty-five seconds long. While he sometimes races or mumbles through it, I am consistently moved to tears when I hear this specific quote from Jobs: "When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: 'If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.' It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something." During this raw and vulnerable time, I feel like we are collectively changing something--for the better. Personally, I have roused up extra/renewed gratitude for life. Even though I am still doing the same old--getting up every morning, making meals for my children, paying bills, eating too many gummy bears, trying to be creative and productive, and yes, even wearing a cute dress through it all--I am also readying for the new normal ahead. Happy Hump Day.
Untitled
Wednesday, April 29
As I walked and talked (six feet apart) with two girlfriends yesterday, we covered lots of ground: working from home, home-schooling, cooking, sanitizing groceries, cutest masks, family activities, immunity-boosting supplements, weekly wine consumption, and back-up summer plans. I parted from them, buzzing with endorphins and hopes for a healthier, fun-filled future.
frame of mind
Tuesday, April 28
Head's up: Frame Denim's legendary sample sale just launched online, rife with its sought-after jeans at 80% off, including the Le Original ($75!), above, plus 25% off new spring styles (yes, yes and yes!). My go-to silhouettes are Le Sylvie Slender Straight (vintage inspired) and the white Kick Boot (relaxed fit, high waist). Other incredible scores: this faux fur-lined jacket, this scallop eyelet button-down, this denim mini and this denim blouson sleeve blouse. Shop it all here!
made in the shade
Tuesday, April 28
During a Zoom call with my posse of friends the other day, I noticed that many of us were wearing the same pair of black framed Caddis reading glasses. This coincidence can be explained rather easily: We all have great taste! Seriously, though, Caddis glasses flatter pretty much every face shape, plus boast blue light-blocking lenses, and, thankfully, are not so expensive. I recently bought the sunglasses version, above, which I really love because they look exactly like my beloved Ray-Bans--but, hooray, I can actually see with them! P.S. Avoid reading this post with readers so you don't see my wrinkly-looking neck!
monday motivation
Monday, April 27
Leave it to our European sisters to manage quarantine fatigue with fashionable finesse. Instead of cozy sweats, they're opting for thoroughly comfortable jeans, specifically those by Jeanerica (pictured here). The up-and-coming Swedish brand, designed by the former head of denim at Acne Studios, is crafted with eco-friendly materials and rendered in ultra-flattering, minimalist silhouettes (it also makes the best, perfectly-cut t-shirts, below). On top of their jeans, they're sporting effortlessly chic tank tops, like the black knit Vince, above, and the Frankie, below, plus a statement cardigan or jacket (this, this or this) for good/polished measure. The overall look strides with summer's casual cadence--i.e., good inspo!
Photos: Leia Sfez, Columbine Smille, Tamu McPherson, Natasha Goldenberg





















